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[Oct 19, 2025 · 3 min read][research]

A Machine in a Man's World

Walk into a coffee shop and, without really trying, you know a lot. You know the guy with the tray is about to bump into you if you don't step left. You know the barista is overwhelmed, because the orders are piling up and she's stopped making eye contact. You know the couple by the window is about to leave, because they've been putting their jackets on for a minute now, and if you hover near that table you'll get it.

None of that is in a single frame. Freeze the scene and all you have is a guy, a barista, a couple and a table. Everything useful you know comes from the few seconds before and the guess you're making about the few seconds after.

That's the thing I keep coming back to with AI right now. Our models are incredible at the frozen frame. Show one a picture and ask it to count the cups on the counter and it'll probably nail it. Show it a video and ask what happened, and things fall apart surprisingly quickly. It loses track of who's who. It forgets what happened thirty seconds ago. It describes each moment well and understands the whole thing badly.

The honest way to put it is that our AIs have the memory of a goldfish. There's a lot of clever work on memory orchestration, stitching together summaries, storing notes about what the model saw earlier and feeding them back in, and some of it works fine, but it feels like a bandaid. You're asking a goldfish to keep a diary. The model still isn't really living through time, it's reading its own notes about it.

I've come to think time isn't just another dimension to add to the pile. It's the dimension that separates perception from understanding. Seeing a thing is perception. Knowing what it means, what caused it and what's likely to happen next, that's understanding, and you can't get there without time.

I feel this most on the mats. Jiu-jitsu is chess in 4D, three dimensions plus time, and the time part is where the whole sport lives. A position on its own tells you almost nothing. Whether you're about to get swept depends on the grip your opponent set up four seconds ago and the weight shift that's coming. When I've pointed vision models at matches, they don't just struggle with two bodies tangled together. They have no real sense of time. Each frame is its own little island.

So I've started poking at it properly, nights and weekends. Something that watches your rolls and tells you what actually happened. It's a side thing and I'm not pretending otherwise.

My hunch, and it's only a hunch, is that the answer isn't a bigger model. It's giving the model something to hold on to - the boring, cheap signals like where the bodies are and how they're moving - so it isn't guessing from pixels alone every time. The key is making the model pay attention for longer.

I don't know where this goes. I've learned not to plan too far on something this early. But I know the question is a good one, and I know it's going to take a long time, and I've always liked the long games best. If we want machines that understand people, and not just describe them, they're going to have to learn to remember what they just saw.

Goldfish don't get to be coaches.